Pandora has this feature I wish was on Facebook. Sometimes there's a song you really like that you.... just don't want to hear for a while. You don't want to throw it away and skipping past it doesn't really help if it shows up an hour later, you've just fallen a little out-of-love with it temporarily. When this happens, Pandora has the 'I'm tired of this track' option. It temporarily takes it out of rotation. You're saying "I love you, song, but we need to take a break so I don't end up hating you". It's great, it's still in your life and influencing other song choices in your listing, you and the song are still friends, it's just _elsewhere_ for a little bit. Relationships with songs seem complicated, right? We associate them with events in our lives, the way they make us feel, a technical appreciation for their structure, all sorts of things. But compared to relationships with people they're simple. Songs don't change, but people change every second. Songs don't turn nasty or associate themselves with vileness suddenly (ok, except for maybe some Wagner, tough break there) while still being the song you liked previously. Songs stay themselves and we're the only dynamic one in the relationship. So... how is it that a song for Pandora can offer such a useful feature for managing those rough patches while Facebook ("The Social Network") doesn't? There's something about this election (more so than others I remember) that seems to be bringing out the worst in folks. I'm sure others think the same about me, don't get me wrong, but that goes back to the whole 'people and relationships are complicated' thing. These last few weeks, I've seen folks whom I like adopt shocking opinions and downplay some outrageous things. People whom I like have said things that knock me on my butt but... I still like them as People, I just don't know how to deal with them as Participants In Election 2016. Facebook has a few hamfisted tools for this. You can unfriend people, you can block them, and you can unfollow them. Each of these are pretty strong medicine and permanent without conscious effort. If you block someone, they're goooooone until you remember to unblock them through some interface you'd probably have to google the instructions for. With unfollow, they disappear from your news feed and likewise will be elsewhere until you remember to track them down in settings and re-enable them. Unfriending people is pretty rough because if they notice, it sounds like you're sending a message 'we are not friends any more'. I've been unfriended before by folks who didn't see it as a big deal and I still smart from it because it feels like rejection. For some of us, forming relationships is hard work and doesn't 'just happen', having the other person make a conscious choice to no longer be 'friends' feels like a punch. So what's the solution? What can Facebook do to help people like me who feel like a kindergartner who accidentally wandered into the front of some terrible machine-gun battle? "I'm tired of this track". It'd probably need a different name. Maybe.... "Temporarily mute friend", or... "🙉" (Kikazaru, the monkey with the hands over its ears) or something clever. Basically, I'd like a feature in Facebook where, when I read that some friend of mine has one of those Election-Specific opinions about something on which I don't want to battle, I can just not see their posts for a few weeks. It'd be great if it automatically deactivated after then so we can just continue as before. No out-of-the-blue friend requests, no chance to screw up and forget who you unfollowed, just a temporary break. I don't want to have to maintain some rolodex/action list of people to re-follow or re-friend after the election's over because I'll screw it up and the "wait, you unfriended me?!" conflicts sound pretty awful too. I don't think I have too many illusions here. Some of the things that upset me now might end up being deal-breakers. I think a few of my friendships are in some real peril now because of some pretty upsetting endorsements and excusals I've read recently. No doubt there are people out there who feel the same about me, too, but I've got to hold onto the hope that some of them are going to get better when this election is over. Facebook and Pandora have plenty of functional overlap. Our actions and relationships affect suggestions and behaviors already, maybe it's time to get inspiraton from another function for the sake of maintaining friendships. Maybe this stuff is easy for the rest of all y'all, but this kindergartner's ready to come in from the war for a little bit.